We all make a lot of effort to be good parents. At times we are hard on our kids only to ensure that we do not exhibit the traits of negative parenting. However, at times we unintentionally tend to indulge in acts that are considered to be weak parenting skills. Here we are going to make you aware about the same.
One of the most common signs of weak parenting is neglecting the child. Be it physically or emotionally, if you are making this mistake of avoiding your child then you are definitely on the path of weak parenting. Neglecting a child in other term can also be associated with abuse so try not to leave your kid unsupervised as it can not only be dangerous for them but it also gives them a feeling of being worthless. This in turn results in low self-esteem as well as isolation. It can have a negative impact on the overall development of the kid. It is thus suggested that parents should begin paying attention towards their kids in case they have been ignoring them in a while.
Many parents are of the opinion that raising hands on the growing kids is perfectly fine to make them realize the difference between good and bad. Also, at times parents are in a habit of verbally abusing their kids for infinite reasons. However, this is not at all a positive parenting approach. By doing so, you are torturing your child. This is going to impact the holistic growth of your child and leave on him a negative remark for ever. Moreover, you ought to know that children practice what they do. So, it is time to shun such practices of parenting.
It is true that sometimes parents are more caring about one of the child owing to one or the other reason. Keeping this partiality to yourself, irrespective of the reason for which it exists is perfectly fine. However, making children aware about this favoritism is not at all a good approach. Firstly, this results to spoiling the child that gets all the attention. Secondly, the others in the family may or may not appreciate your reasons for having this biasness even if it is there for reasons like health. This in turn results in negatively impacting all the kids in the family. Therefore, it is suggested that you should not practice favoritism in any scenario.
To sum up, these are the common weak parenting traits that all of us as parents should get rid of today.